Short Answer:
How: Speak naturally about what you want.
Ex: “I’ve been studying a lot about family structure, and I’ve developed an interest in polygyny. Is that something you would be open to?”
Ex: “What are your thoughts on polygyny, a man having more than one wife?”
Ex: “I’ve been reading this book on polygyny that I find very intriguing. It talks about…”
When: If you are not currently married and considering someone, the sooner the better, preferably in the first few conversations about what kind of relationship you are looking to establish.
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More Thoughts: Some men think that this is something that should not be brought up too soon, because it might scare the woman off. Or, that women in general are not going to be open to this, so why bring in up in the beginning. This is exactly the reason to address it in the beginning. It’s better to start a relationship with someone you will be on the same page with, rather than getting emotionally involved, and then someone feeling trapped in a situation they wish they had know more about in the beginning. Trying to convince or persuade someone to later do something they have no desire to, is manipulative. Getting everything out and open in the beginning is the best approach to prevent confusion and resentment, and to also make sure there is good compatibility from the start. How the person responds should let you both know, if moving forward with the relationship is a good idea, or bad one. The truth is, any uncomfortableness in talking about who you are and what you want, creates an immediate environment of inauthentic presentation and subtle deceit. You will be holding something back, not being able to be yourself, will causes awkwardness and minimizes capacity for genuine relating.
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