Q: What if a man can’t sexually satisfy more than one woman?

Answer:

This question is tricky to answer because in a way it generalizes all women. Not all women desire or want the same amount of sex within a week or month. Not all men do either. Some men actually want more sex than a number of women do. This relates to compatibility more than a required amount of something that every man should provide. It also relates to knowledge of self. Some people desire sex more than one may consider to be “normal”. Some actually do have sexual addictions, and use sex as an intoxicant or way to self-medicate emotional issues they have. Sex is a drug for them, and they use sex as an indulgence activity. Low vibrational people also have tendency to be overly concerned with sexual pleasures. Men and women both display such behaviors, where they may desire to have sex multiple times on a daily basis and can’t stop thinking about it. Likewise there are men and women who lack a desire for sex in general, and who may have sexual desire dysfunctions. The key to operating in a polygynous setting or in marriage in general, would be to first be aware of your self, and your own condition of sexual desire and stamina. Ideally, one should be healthy in body and mind as it relates to their approach to sex. In such healthy condition, choose those compatible with you based on similar desires around sex and the frequency desire of it. No one should choose a partner that has a naturally much higher sex drive than they do. If a person’s activities are fully involved and engaged during the day, and they are finding fulfillment in various endeavors, they will be less likely obsessed with sexual thoughts and indulgences. Diet will also play a factor in a person’s sexual health. Men in polygynous marriages must be sure to maintain a proper diet and state of mind which allows them to perform in a balanced way, and to meet the sexual needs of their wives. Wives must be balanced in their diet and emotional states so as to also be balanced within the marriage. These discussions should be had prior to marriage taking place. If a man knows that he has a sexual dysfunction, he may not be a good candidate for adding additional wives. Facing reality and acting accordingly is always the best thing to do.